the blinding symmetry

Hello.
25. Feminist. Student. Language Nerd.
I really love my dogs.

Trying to read El mio Cid in the original Spanish.
Trying not to throw my papers out the window.

01 Sep 2014

You know, if there was, in fact, reputable scientific evidence that rape is “natural”, ie, it is an evolutionarily developed trait that confers an advantage, the correct solution is not to put the burden on women to protect themselves… we have plenty of natural solutions for animals that can’t control themselves. We made wolves into docile pet dogs by killing all the ones who were aggressive against humans, and we’re still doing it.
I can easily believe that rape could confer enough of an evolutionary advantage that some men would have a predisposition to commit it. Forced sex exists in nature; for instance, up to 53% of duck copulations may be forced on the female by the male. But only in the world where men are the default human, and all men have inalienable human rights, and women are just an afterthought, could this “fact” (if it is in fact true) be interpreted to suggest the solution “women should avoid sexual displays around men.” If women are the ones with the inalienable human rights and men are understood to be violating those rights when they rape, and rapists are perceived to be genetically predisposed predators who “cannot help themselves”, they would have to be killed, or at least sterilized and imprisoned for life, their children (if they had any) monitored carefully for any tendencies to rape and punished just as harshly as their fathers were. Because we would see the “natural” tendency as something that has to be bred out of the human population, and therefore rapists could not be permitted to remain in the gene pool.
The implications of the idea that “rape is natural” are staggering and awful, all right, but in a world where women were actually seen as human beings, they would be staggering and awful for *men*. Men could be legally presumed to be potential rapists until proven otherwise, the way dogs are legally presumed to be dangerous animals unless under the control of a human. Men might suffer from curfews or restrictions on how many men they can be gathered with at any time or other such terrible violations of their civil liberties. Only in a construction of reality where men, like all humans, are in control of their own actions and cannot be absolved of responsibility for any crime on the grounds that they can’t help themselves, can men be granted basic human rights.
These researchers are so deep into a patriarchal, only-men-count paradigm that they don’t even *see* how men being biological predators would have to change how women treat them. Humans do not avoid predators, we *kill* them. We take the territories we want and we displace any creature that preys on humans. The logic of “men are hardwired to prey on women” results in “men, unlike women, are not rational actors who can be trusted to respect other humans’ bodies, and therefore, men must be controlled”… except in patriarchal clown logic, where the rules that humans apply to every other predator on the planet don’t apply to men because men are human and women aren’t.

comment by Alara Rogers on yesmeansyesblog’s article ‘Against Nature’. (via official-mens-frights-activist)

omg

(via fake-it-real)

01 Sep 2014
Filed under: rape culture

My love, take these walls, these wars.
          Dull my blades. I am tired of the hunt.

I’ve laid my only words at your feet. Open for me.
          I want to know, be known. Want and be wanted.

Jeanann Verlee, from “Your Mouth Is a Church, I Forgot How to Pray,” Nailed (July 21, 2014)

01 Sep 2014

It’s Labor Day.

I’m alone in my office. The whole building is vacant, except for me. I’m literally so creeped out.

This has all the makings of a horror movie.

01 Sep 2014

Considering it’s taken me seven years to do my BA: How am I ever going to get through grad school?

01 Sep 2014
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01 Sep 2014

feeltheillinoise-:

sergeantjerkbarnes:

can we please discuss what the fuck is wrong with pennsylvania

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I personally like Scotrun, PA because it’s impossible to not read it as scrotum

The coldest day of the year
was warmer than I expected. I have forgotten
the order of seasons, traced your name in the sky
to watch the mist unwrite it. You must have seen this
coming, the letters you’d send me, the silence
I’d return.

Annelyse Gelman, “Illusionist,” published in Nailed Magazine (via rohirrim)

01 Sep 2014
THIS STUFF IS SO GOOD
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31 Aug 2014

THIS STUFF IS SO GOOD

The real reason I love the self checkout lines at the grocery store is because I just bought five different kinds of ice cream, and no cashier could judge me.

31 Aug 2014
mommyandmakoons:

littlebirdaccessories:

I just posted everything I’ve got for sale! Don’t miss this sale! 💥💥💥💥💥 #beadwork #beadedearrings #ndnbling #littlebirdaccessories #sale #10percentoff #freeshipping #ndnbeadwork #nativemade

Don’t miss the “Caitlin needs to make rent” sale! Lol fr tho
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31 Aug 2014

mommyandmakoons:

littlebirdaccessories:

I just posted everything I’ve got for sale! Don’t miss this sale! 💥💥💥💥💥 #beadwork #beadedearrings #ndnbling #littlebirdaccessories #sale #10percentoff #freeshipping #ndnbeadwork #nativemade

Don’t miss the “Caitlin needs to make rent” sale! Lol fr tho

rebel6:

by Albert Che
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31 Aug 2014

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31 Aug 2014

casualblessings:

May you have enough money to pay your bills this month with a little extra left over for a bit of fun.

31 Aug 2014
failmacaw:

nightmargin:

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30 Aug 2014

failmacaw:

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jessehimself:

Retired Philadelphia police captain @CaptainRayLewis on W. Florissant supporting protesters. #Ferguson
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30 Aug 2014

jessehimself:

Retired Philadelphia police captain @CaptainRayLewis on W. Florissant supporting protesters. #Ferguson

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